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Sex, it is all in the head… is it really? It has always been in the head this is a fact, if you survey the young women population you will find that many women do not reach orgasm and do not fully enjoy sex many years prior to the dreadful menopause.
After reaching menopause women finally have justification for not possessing a strong sex drive (as apposed to men that cannot stop thinking about sex 70% or higher of the wake time).
I believe that how a woman perceives herself as she ages has a very powerful impact on her low sex drive and enjoyment of sex games. If a woman does not feel attractive and does not like her image in the mirror, adding hormones will not really make the difference.
A few tips for enjoying sex after the peak years:
1. Be open with your partner; discuss your feelings, fears and embarrassments. This can help you both search for creative solutions that will turn you both on.
2. Find comfortable positions that do not trigger the aches and pains of stiffness.
3. Find a good lubricant that you both like, there are some creative lubricants out there that can actually add fun and excitement to the game.
4. Exercise and eat healthy food, maintaining a balanced diet will improve the general sense of well being and can make one feel better mentally and physically.
5. It is no shame to masturbate or use a vibrator. A vibrator can also add to your sex games with your partner, if you have not tried it yet, it is never too late to begin.
6. Enjoy safe sex, yes even the aging population can transmit sexual disease or HIV (at least you will not get pregnant…)
7. Make your self beautiful; there are a few methods to improve lax skin and cellulite. Home devices which are dedicated for anti aging  treatments and cellulite treatments  are available to treat yourself on a regular basis or before a romantic evening. Treat yourself to your favorite antiaging creams and serums to make your skin feel and look better.

So do not give up on the pleasures of sex just because you are expected to. Sex is a very important factor for living a healthy happy life.